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She said she had a rare but benign brain tumor, and surgery had failed to remove all of it. There is evidence that hormonal changes in pregnancy can fuel growth of these tumors. Now married, she said she probably would have continued the pregnancy if it hadn't put her life in danger. She was raised in a religious family and worries how her parents will react if they find out about the abortion. She said she and her fiancι used condoms and she was on the pill when she discovered she was pregnant. Her first reaction after taking a home pregnancy test was, "This has to be wrong!" She took a second test and got the same results. Two weeks later, when she was about five weeks along, she used $550 in savings for a surgical abortion at Rockford's only abortion clinic. It later closed. So early in pregnancy, she could have used the abortion pill instead of having a medical procedure. But that would have required a return visit to the clinic, something she said she wanted to avoid. Abortion protesters were picketing outside when the young couple arrived in the parking lot that morning. One protester was particularly persistent. "She was just blatantly yelling at my fiancι and I. I turned around and said, 'Listen, lady, you don't know what everyone is going through.' She was just saying that I was already a mom and I have all these options -- the opposite of what my doctor was telling me. "I looked at her and told her, 'I'm doing this to save my life.'" ___ An unplanned pregnancy during an affair with a married man is what led a 36-year-old Minneapolis area teacher to have an abortion, on Aug. 3. They had been using spermicide for birth control, a method described as about 75 percent effective with typical use. A missed period and pregnancy test confirmed her fears. "I cried for like 36 hours," she said. Estranged from her husband, and with a young daughter, she said continuing the pregnancy was unthinkable. Though she and the man she was having a relationship with were raised Catholic, she considers herself "pro-choice -- I just never thought I'd have to make that choice myself." Minnesota requires a 24-hour waiting period, so she called an area clinic to schedule the abortion, spoke to a doctor and went in for the procedure the next day. She had friends and her partner had relatives who had protested at the same clinic. But on this day she didn't recognize any of the activists there. The protesters tried to hand her pamphlets as she drove into the parking lot, but (Continued on page 36)
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